Author and speaker Paul Coughlin says many Christian and non-Christian parents today are raising kids who are soft, compliant, and pleasant instead of assertive, courageous, and virtuous.  And by doing so, they are preventing their children from developing the abilities needed to deal with conflict, making them a potential target for bullies.  In this edition of A Closer Look: You Can Raise a Strong Child, Coughlin shares a self test for moms and dads to rate their parenting skills